What is LOVE and MARRIAGE?

A student asked a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the padi
field and choose the biggest padi and come back. But the rule is: you
can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big
padi but he wonders may be there is a bigger one later. Then he
saw another bigger one but may be there is a even bigger one
waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the padi
field, he start to realise that the padi is not as big as the
previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he
regretted!!!! So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty
hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a
better one but when later you realised you have already miss the
person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn
field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you
can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The
student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat
the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has
picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the
teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look
for one
that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one
you get.... this is marriage."